By Andy Rittenhouse
This guidebook has been a labor of love by many people. It
culminates four months of research, 23 focus groups and hours and
hours of interviews and writing. We have investigated 22 different
categories of potential community involvement and have interviewed a
wide spectrum of people ranging from police officers and educators
to runaways and prostitutes.
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book's premise is that Christians are to be "salt and light"
(Matthew 5) in the communities in which we live. Its purpose
is to put those of us who love Jesus and are sustained by a vital
relationship with Him in direct "hands on" contact with suffering
and injustice in our comunity. |
The book’s premise is
that Christians are to be “salt and light” (Matthew 5) in the
communities in which we live. Its purpose is to put those of us who
love Jesus and are sustained by a vital relationship with Him in
direct “hands on” contact with suffering and injustice in our
community.
Why is that important? Several reasons come to mind. First, as
Christians journey with Christ into a bruised and broken world, we
become different people along the way. We come to the end of
ourselves. On the journey, many of us repent of cold hearts, love of
“stuff,” prejudice and little faith. Most of us are pushed to our
knees by the trauma we encounter. Our hunger (even desperation) to
see God move in our midst grows immeasurably. And as He answers our
somewhat timid “beginner” prayers, we are amazed, deeply grateful
and increasingly loyal to Him for His provision. Nothing in life
beats knowing God this way. That is why we gain so much by getting
“hands on” with our community. And we are the poorer to the same
degree for the lack of it.
If that isn’t enough,
the journey introduces us to real-life heroes. You may know some
great people, but wait until you meet a few of the heroes who empty
themselves for others every day right here in our city. Heroes who
walk alongside the former offenders, the AIDS patients or the
mentally ill. Wait until you meet the teachers in our nontraditional
schools! Or the black pastor from the inner-city who, with nothing
but faith, rises at 6 a.m. to pray for his community. Or the single
mom with a family who trains passionately, despite the distractions,
to give the gift of job skills to the unemployed. Or the mother of
three who spends most of her days translating for and aiding
low-income Latinos. Space does not permit me to tell about those who
minister on our streets to the homeless or set up shop in our
public-housing developments, to love and empower people every week
of the year. You need to meet the heroes who “hang out” with the
skateboarders with nose rings or those that spend countless hours
with newly arrived refugees whose tragic stories would make you
weep. The list of heroes is endless.
And they are everywhere. Some work for nonprofits, others work for
government agencies, while many don’t work for anybody because there
is no pay for what they do. Being around them has humbled and
changed all of us who have met them. Walking with heroes, life on
the “broken world tour” with Christ seems deeper, richer and more
worth living. People tend to hug more, to say “I love you” more and
to give more freely to each other. On the journey into our
community, even salvation feels more authentic . . . it really is
good news for broken lives.
But travelers on the journey with Christ into a broken world aren’t
the only ones to benefit. People we meet along the way are touched
as well. Some are transformed.
How is that so? Because when people who love Jesus come face to face
with suffering and injustice, God Himself comes face to face with
the same. Not that we bring Him there, for He has been there
already. But we bring Him there in the sense that He becomes
tangible, touchable. He has “our skin” on.
And therein lies the hope of this book.
What hope? That “God with skin on” will get involved!
Not that we are the hope. But rather God is the hope . . . we just
provide the human body. The great mystery of our faith is that God
chooses to indwell His people and to use us. And when that occurs,
life is forever changed for them. In this encounter, purpose,
significance and even life eternal follow.
“God with skin on” . . . can you imagine?
Can you imagine if “God with skin on” began to build relationships
with the 1,500 or so people dying with AIDS in Knoxville? A wife
whose husband brought the disease home to her during her pregnancy
told us how rejected she felt by her community. Her son was born
HIV-positive. Eventually she was voted out of her church and asked
to withdraw her son from the school he attended. That story would
have had a different ending if “God with skin on” had been involved.
Can you imagine if “God with skin on” began to come alongside the
roughly 4,500 struggling single mothers with children under 18 who
live in poverty in Knoxville? One of these moms told us, “Life is
tough. I’m doing well in school, but I lost one semester’s work to a
car wreck and had another setback when my son was hospitalized.”
What if “God with skin on” began to regularly take a meal to the old
woman living alone in deep poverty whose faithful husband died eight
years ago leaving her languishing in the stillness, trapped in her
ever-increasing dementia? There are over 6,000 elderly living below
the poverty line in Knox County.
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What if “God with skin on” moved next door to one of the many
refugee families who lives in Knoxville, including the one whose
life was shattered when his 9-year-old son was fatally shot in front
of his eyes? You will read his story in this book.
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Imagine the difference “God with skin on” could make living in
the same neighborhood as the grandfather raising his two
grandchildren because his daughter is in prison and her boyfriend,
their father, refuses to get involved. Currently about 4,700
children in our community are being raised by their grandparents.
What if “God with skin on” sought out and began to encourage the
former offender who returned home to Knoxville only to find the
neighborhood church filled with people who have forgotten (or never
understood) that they too have been “former offenders” in God’s
eyes? Without a real friend, the former offender faces continual
rejection and tries to muster the courage to believe in God and find
some hope despite his worsening state of affairs. Soon he will give
up and violate his parole just to return to the safety of a world he
feels much safer in.
Can you imagine if
“God with skin on” began to build and staff residential homes for
the several hundred prostitutes who are living (or dying really) on
the streets of Knoxville, who so desperately need to find some Hope?
In the process of doing our research, one told us “The problem with
a prostitute is that she has nobody.” Currently there are no “God
with skin on” ministries to prostitutes in Knoxville.
Or can you see “God with skin on” helping the undocumented Hispanic
with a family whose wife has cancer? He fears her death and raising
children without her in a foreign land. Hundreds in our community,
just like him, feel as if they have nowhere to turn because they
live in constant dread of deportation. Many have fled deep poverty
back home and want the same things we do, to make a future for their
families. I cannot help but wonder how many of us would also flee
deep poverty to go to the America and would also need to see “God
with skin on” to believe He is real.
Can you imagine “God with skin on” giving a hug to the battered wife
whose world has crashed into a million pieces as she tries to
survive yet another blow and the death of her dreams? There are
approximately 49 domestic violence related calls made to the police
every single day in our county.
What about “God with skin on” resolutely pursuing a relationship
with the 17-year-old alcoholic; or the seventh-grader sniffing glue
whose parents give him money but no time (we have the second-highest
seventh grade rate of inhalant substance abuse in the country); or
the runaway who told us, “My dad would tell me ‘you are worthless
and a waste . . . you cannot do anything right . . . you are lazy
and stupid.’”
What if “God with skin on” gently built a relationship with the
woman so debilitated by her mental illness that it leaves her crying
quietly for hours hidden in a closet in the bedroom afraid to come
out, unable even to hold her frightened but concerned young
children? Over 70,000 people in Knox County struggle with some form
of mental illness.
Imagine if “God with skin on” adopted the youth who has been in 7
foster homes so far in his young life gradually hardening him to the
hope of ever feeling hope again. Where is the hope for a child who
no one will adopt because he is just too odd or too abused or, more
often, the wrong color? Currently about 400 children need new homes
in our county.
The ONLY hope is “God with skin on!”
Many of these stories are told inside the cover of this guidebook.
So look for them.
Although what you are about to read will overwhelm you at times,
don’t forget what is really going on here. God is at work in
Knoxville or you wouldn’t be holding this guidebook. He has taken
great pains to reveal the need to you and to all of us who live here
and love Him. Don’t be afraid. You will possibly feel even more
alive and excited about God than you have in years. His power and
His love will flow through you to bring hope to someone who
struggles to find hope. At least that’s the promise of Isaiah 58.
“Is not this the kind of fasting I have
chosen: to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of
the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke?
Is it not to share your food with the hungry and to provide the
poor wanderer with shelter – when you see the naked, to clothe
him, and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood?
Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing
will quickly appear; then your righteousness will go before you,
and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard.
Then you will call, and the LORD will answer; you will cry for
help, and He will say: Here am I.”
Isaiah 58:6-9
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More importantly, you will be broken and reshaped as well . . . into
His image. That alone is priceless and worth anything you have to
give up. Understand this clearly: you stand to gain more than
anyone.
The Compassion Coalition hopes that you, your family and your
congregation will be “God with skin on” to this city; that you will
bravely walk into the places He opens up for you; and that, in so
many ways, you will make it possible for people to say, “Truly, the
Kingdom of God is coming to earth
in Knoxville.”
May the Kingdom of our Lord become the very ground upon which you
walk.
Your brother in Christ,
Andy Rittenhouse
September 2002
Executive Director
Compassion Coalition
Knoxville, Tennessee
A Little Advice
As you seek to be “God with skin on” in our community, we urge
you to proceed carefully.
• Before you begin, spend sufficient time in prayer to find out what
God is saying to you. Don’t rush into anything. Move only as you
feel God’s peace and affirmation to do so.
• Recognize that your relationship with Christ and faithful friends
in your congregation will provide the strength you need for the
journey. At times, your compassion will run dry, your idealism will
be destroyed and all your patience may go by the wayside. You will
not be able to endure unless you are caring for yourself by spending
“renewal” time with Jesus and a few friends who care. This cannot be
overemphasized!
• If your church has a “compassion director” or the equivalent
(person responsible for connecting your congregation to community
needs), please go talk to him or her. Share your plans. You are part
of that church family and, as such, have a responsibility to move in
sync with them. Your compassion director may be planning to start a
ministry similar to what you want to do. Or, the timing may be bad
due to other considerations. Please give deference and follow his
or her lead. God will honor that.
• Please be conservative in the amount of time you offer a ministry
or agency. They would much rather have you commit less often and
make those commitments than to commit more frequently and not show
up. Your presence (or lack of) really does impact lives.
• Some opportunities you read about are easy to do and need little
training. Others, however, might be more successful with guidance
and training. If you feel like you need to get more help to get
started, call the Compassion Coalition office and talk to us.
Hopefully we will be able to assign you a “coach” who will walk you
through the initial start-up phase. We might arrange a field trip
for you, your family or your small group.
• If you would like to be notified (via e-mail) of community needs
as we become aware of them, please contact our office. We will
gladly add your name to that e-mail list. We would like to build an
e-mail list that ties the entire Body of Christ together to
represent “God with skin on” to this community.
• Pastors: If you want to appoint a compassion director and sign him
or her up for our next compassion directors training course, please
contact our office. We will explain the process and the
requirements.
Understand the Process
The research for this project was conducted over a four-month
period from May to August 2002. Twenty-three focus groups were
utilized to obtain the desired information. Professionals and
knowledgeable others were invited to a two-hour meeting that was
videotaped to ensure accuracy of the final report. The focus
groups were challenged to define the critical issues, give a
sense of the severity of the problems, and to produce hard data
(if available) to support their claims. Additionally, the groups
were polled for “advice” to local pastors. This proved to be
extremely insightful.
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